Paws & Promises: How to Include Your Dog in Your Wedding (Without Losing Your Mind)

Because your best friend has four legs, a tail, and no concept of personal space.

If you're anything like me, your dog isn't just a dog—they're your family, your therapist, your hiking buddy, and your emotional support gremlin. (My baby Tendi enjoying the snow.) So when it comes time to plan a wedding, leaving them out? Absolutely not.

Luckily, there are a ton of creative, meaningful, and logistically sound ways to include your pup in your big day—whether they’re front and center in the ceremony or honored in the details. As a wedding photographer and certified animal enthusiast, I’ve had the privilege of capturing some truly iconic doggy moments. Here’s your ultimate guide to doing it right.

🐾 Step One: Should Your Dog Be At the Wedding?

Let’s be real—some dogs are built for wedding day glory, and some are better suited for cozy snuggles at home.

Ask yourself:

• Is my dog friendly with new people?

• Can they handle loud sounds, crowds, and new environments?

• Will they be comfortable in the venue space (especially outdoors or with other animals)?

• Are they more “flower crown royalty” or “will dig a hole in the cake when I’m not looking”?

If the answer to those questions is mostly "HECK YEAH," then read on. If not? That’s okay—we’ve got tips for that, too.

💍 Roles Your Dog Can Play on the Big Day

If your pup is coming to the party, here are a few adorable options:

Dog of Honor (yes, with their own flower crown or bow tie)

Ring Bearer (if they’re cool under pressure and can follow cues)

Flower Pup (scattering joy, not petals)

Ceremony greeter (if they love attention but not long commitments)

Photo session VIP (my fave—capturing sweet snuggles pre- or post-ceremony)

🎀 Doggy Dress Code: Fashion Meets Function

We’re talking formally floofy without making them miserable. Some stylish and safe options:

• Bow ties or floral collars that match the wedding colors

• Bandanas with custom messages (bonus points for puns)

• A “just married” leash or harness if you’re feeling bold

Pro tip: Bring a backup outfit (and treats. So many treats.)

🐶 What If Your Dog Can’t Attend? (But You Still Want to Honor Them)

Not every dog can make it to the venue—and that’s okay. You can still weave them into the celebration in incredibly personal and touching ways:

• Include them in your cake topper (yes, that’s a thing and yes, I’m obsessed)

• Add their name to your vows, signs, or favors

• Use custom drink stirrers, napkins, or illustrations featuring their sweet face

• Wear a tiny paw print pin or charm on your bouquet/boutonnière

📸 From a Photographer’s Perspective…

When pups are involved, here’s what helps get the good stuff:

• Schedule time into the photo timeline just for pet portraits

• Assign a “dog handler” for the day (not in the wedding party!)

• Have their favorite toy, blanket, or treat nearby for comfort

• Let them sniff and get comfy before we snap away

The goal is to keep it joyful, not stressful—for both you and your fur baby.

🐐 Bonus Guest Appearance: The Goat

Okay, so maybe not every wedding animal was invited.

Did he RSVP? No.
Did he show up looking for snacks and steal everyone’s heart? Yes.
Is this your reminder that weddings don’t have to follow the rules? ABSOLUTELY.

Whether it’s dogs, goats, cats, or heck—a flock of chickens in tiny tuxedos—your day should feel like you.

💌 Ready to Plan Your Pawfect Day?

If you’re dreaming up a wedding with wagging tails and joyful chaos, I’m here for it. From timeline tips to candid cuddles, I’ll help make sure your pup feels like part of the story—because they are.

Drop me a message and tell me your dog’s name first. I’ll know we’re about to be best friends. 🐾